Recent comments by Markwayne Mullin, the newly appointed Department of Homeland Security Secretary, have resurfaced, revealing his explicit support for corporal punishment. Speaking at an event with Christian political activists in October 2023, Mullin openly discussed spanking his six children, describing it as a normalized practice within his family.
Mullin shared anecdotes about physically disciplining his children, stating he has “no problem” with spanking and recounting instances where his children begged him to stop. He described the immediate aftermath—children crawling onto his lap for affection even after being hit—suggesting a pattern of emotional manipulation following physical discipline.
The Science is Clear: Corporal Punishment Harms Children
While Mullin’s statements may resonate with certain conservative parenting circles, decades of research have unequivocally demonstrated the negative consequences of corporal punishment. Experts in child development warn that hitting children is not only ineffective but also detrimental to their long-term mental and emotional health.
Jessica Scher Lisa, a clinical psychologist, explains: “Spanking may stop behavior temporarily, but it’s linked to aggression, anxiety, depression, and weakened parent-child relationships. It teaches children that physical force is an acceptable response to frustration rather than emotional regulation.”
The World Health Organization (WHO) published a report in August reinforcing these findings. WHO director Etienne Krug stated: “There is overwhelming evidence that corporal punishment carries multiple risks to children’s health… it offers no benefits and must end.”
Brain Development and Cycles of Violence
Research suggests corporal punishment can have neurological effects similar to abuse, triggering a threat response in children’s brains. Fiona Yassin, a family psychotherapist, notes that children who experience physical discipline at a young age are more likely to suffer from mental health issues and behavioral problems later in life.
This pattern isn’t new; studies dating back to the 1980s have documented the harm of hitting children. Yet, authoritarian parenting styles continue to promote it, often normalized through intergenerational trauma. Mullin himself referenced being raised “by the fear of a belt,” implying a cycle he perpetuates.
Why Do Parents Brag About Physical Discipline?
Experts suggest that openly discussing corporal punishment can be a way for parents to signal authority, control, or adherence to traditional disciplinary methods. John Puls, a licensed clinical social worker, notes that some parents wear it as “a badge of honor,” rejecting modern parenting techniques.
Scher Lisa adds that many parents were raised with physical punishment themselves and view it as an effective form of discipline. The normalization of violence within families can lead to pride in using physical force, rather than recognizing its harm.
Breaking the Cycle
The long-term consequences of corporal punishment extend beyond individual children, impacting future generations. Experts emphasize the importance of modeling healthy emotional regulation and breaking cycles of violence. Scher Lisa concludes: “Kids learn by watching us. If we want them to manage frustration, use words, and regulate their behavior, we have to model that for them.”
This requires intentional effort from parents to reflect on their own upbringing and choose alternative disciplinary methods. Avoiding physical harm is not only beneficial for children but also crucial for creating a safer and more nurturing environment for future generations.
