Reality star Jessi Draper recently shared a series of shocking allegations about her marriage and divorce from Jordan Ngatikaura during an appearance on the “Call Her Daddy” podcast. The conversation, which followed Ngatikaura’s filing for divorce on March 19, revealed a deeply troubled relationship marked by alleged emotional abuse, infidelity, and manipulative behavior.
Allegations of Infidelity and Exploitation
Draper claims she learned about the divorce filing through TMZ, despite already planning to end the marriage. She detailed accusations that her husband engaged in extramarital activity, including contacting an escort service during a work trip. According to Draper, she received proof from a worker at the service who provided screenshots of messages between Ngatikaura and the platform. Draper also alleges that Ngatikaura attended “sex parties,” potentially orgies, which she heard through multiple sources, including her sister and unnamed party attendees.
Claims of Surveillance and Manipulation
The most disturbing accusations involve Ngatikaura allegedly hacking into Draper’s Instagram, creating fake phone numbers to send fabricated cheating accusations, and tracking her via home cameras. Draper stated that she changed her number to avoid further surveillance, now communicating about their children only through the old number. She also claims he blackmailed her with screenshots of texts from her affair with Marciano Brunette, threatening to expose them if she didn’t comply.
Controlling Behavior and Post-Divorce Encounter
Draper described constant criticism from Ngatikaura regarding her business, parenting, and appearance, including pressure to do Pilates daily and conform to “traditional gender roles.” In a final act of desperation, Draper admitted to having sex with Ngatikaura shortly after filing for divorce, a moment she now regrets. “After that moment, I was like never again,” she stated.
Draper is now co-parenting through a third party, seeking distance from her ex-husband. The claims made on “Call Her Daddy” paint a picture of a toxic relationship fueled by deception, control, and alleged abuse, adding further controversy to their already volatile public image from Hulu’s “The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.”
The details shared by Draper raise serious questions about the extent of Ngatikaura’s alleged misconduct and the power dynamics within their marriage. The accusations, if substantiated, could have legal and social ramifications.
